I'm finished with making resolutions each year that are no fun at all. I've tried to exercise more, save more money, eat more healthfully, blah, blah, blah...
This year I'm going to make a change that is worth the effort! This year I resolve to spend every Friday possible making art in my studio.
That's right, today was the first Friday of the new year; and it was heavenly!
I encourage you to do something similar. Make a promise to yourself to do something especially for you. Do something weekly that fills you up. It is not a selfish thing. It is only when you are full that you have something to give.